New faces!!

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I was reading one of my friend's blog today and suddenly like a lightning, it struck me, that the face of this friend I was imagining while reading the posts was slowly fading, and finally went blank and a completely new face of the person popped up in my mind. Who is this person?!! I wondered.

We were in the same engineering class for 4 years. We might have discussed on hazaar things during those 4 years..I thought that I generally hadan idea about this person. If anyone asked me about the person, I knew I had an opinion!!....

But, only today, have I felt, that my interaction was very 'one-sided'..I only saw the 'generally accepted- public' side of the person.. and never actually 'knew' the person. It was mainly, I believe, because I did not have a close interaction with the person.

This feeling of 'Who is this new face? ' happened even when I was reading the blog of one of my closest pals. It made me wonder...Have they changed to such an extent that I dont recognize them at all?or have I not interacted with them so closely to 'actually' know who they were....Maybe both!

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