Do I know you?

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What is your definition/ interpretation when you say ' I know this person'?


People say that , it is not necessary to spend a lot of time with the person to actually know the person...But then, whenever there is a misunderstanding or a disgareement, a common school of thought is that you havent known that person enough and so there are misunderstandings...Another school says that even though you live your life with a person, you still will not know how the actual person is ....and the widely heard ..'I need to know the person before I say 'yes'....thought!!....


Amidst, all of these...I ponder..will anyone ever be able to say ' Ok..you can know about 'x' person in 'y' amount of time'....? Can we set such 'just-enough' timeframe to know a person?

But then?!!.....What do we mean when we say ' I know this person'.

I am sure you would ask me, what my definition of 'knowing a person' is...:)......Hang on...I will hopefully have a post on it very soon..!!

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